Want to learn a couple of psychological tricks that will instantly make you more successful with the opposite sex?  Need help on how to get a girlfriend or boyfriend?

Psychological research reveals a lot about human behavior.   For instance, research suggests two things you can easily and instantly do that will enormously increase your chances of success in attracting opposite sex partners.

The first one is a trick that will rank you higher up in anyone’s mind and make them feel more attracted to you.  You will be more attractive almost instantly.  If you’re a 4 in his or her eyes, you will become a 6, in a few minutes.  Just like pulling a rabbit out of a hat, it will happen rapidly and out of nowhere.  It is not rocket science and it is actually a very basic human principle of behavior.  It will also work for women trying to attract a male romantic partner.

The effect is called “romantic reciprocity”.  The principle of romantic reciprocity is the observed phenomenon that people tend to like people who like them back.  It is human nature.  Attraction generates attraction.  The simple knowledge that someone likes you, makes you like that person more.   Research have confirmed that after receiving comments from a partner, a person shows a strong tendency to like that person back.  People like someone better if they know that that someone likes them.

Seducers know very well the power of this principle.  They usually give direct compliments to the women they want, and sometimes tell them that they love them.  They do it because it works.  So, next time you go out, try just approaching girls,  saying hello, and tell them that you like them and compliment them on their beauty.  Do it with at least 10 girls next time and see for yourself.  That´s all.  Approach a girl and make a simple compliment.  Don’t push it.  Then leave and let it work a couple of minutes.  Compliments make people like you, and it is powerful for attracting romantic partner.  Try it for yourself.  Verbal compliments, if sincere, are powerful.  Be powerful.  Make people feel good.  Be romantic.

The second principle is called “propinquity”, and it is so simple it hurts.  Research have confirmed that people like more those persons that they see more often.  Propinquity explains why people tend to marry partners that live within only 3 miles of their home.  Simply because they see more often.  When trying to elicit romantic attraction, try to see the person in at least 3 different settings to enable romantic propinquity.  That’s the Rule of 3.  For example, see her at the university, then at some party or gathering, and some days later in some sporting event.  Don’t be a stalker, but put propinquity in your favor.  If you interact with a potential partner in 3 different settings, and use the “romantic reciprocity” effect we already discussed, you will instantly become more attractive in his or her eyes.  This two activities will make you 100% more successful in attracting a partner, and can even turn things in your favor.

 

By Frederick Norman Tate, author of “Why Romantic Love Dies… Or Thrives”